The headstone reads: Mother Nancy Frazier Feb, 15, 1847 - Jan. 30, 1924, She was the sunshine of our home
Find A Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com : accessed 30 January 2019), memorial page for Nancy E Briscoe Frazier (15 Feb 1847–30 Jan 1924), Find A Grave Memorial no. 14139934, citing Burneyville Cemetery, Burneyville, Love County, Oklahoma, USA ; Maintained by Phil & Donna (Stricklan) Whitaker (contributor 4308835) .
This date is similar to her birth year as calculated from census records
Nancy applied for a widow's pension and was asked what her marriage date was.
Nancy E. Frazier, widow of Richard Frazier, application no. A2988, 1915-1924, pension no. P1077, Record Group 5; digital images, "Confederate Pension Records Database," Oklahoma Digital Prairie (http://www.digitalprairie.ok.gov) : accessed 20 Jan 2019); citing Commissioner of Confederate Pensions, Oklahoma State Archives, Oklahoma Department of Libraries, Oklahoma City, Ok.
Specific day left blank on application
Richard Frazier 39 Self (Head)
Nancy Frazier 35 Wife
John Frazier 14 Son
William Frazier 11 Son
1880 U.S. Census, Cooke County, Texas, population schedule, enumeration district (ED) 113, sheet 254B (stamped), p.32 (penned), dwelling 271, family 270, Richard Frazier household; digital image, Ancestry (https://www.ancestry.com : accessed 30 Jan 2019); citing NARA microfilm publication T9, roll 1298.
Who is this John Frazier, brother, living with them? Research John Frazier.